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The millionaire next door by Thomas J. Stanley Ph.D.: The surprising secrets of America’s wealthy
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The millionaire next door by Thomas J. Stanley Ph.D.: The surprising secrets of America’s wealthy

You aren’t what you drive

“Why aren’t I as wealthy as I should be?” Many people ask this question of themselves all the time. Often, they are hard-working, well-educated, middle- to high-income individuals. Why, then, are so few affluent? For nearly two decades, the answer has been found in the bestselling The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America’s Wealthy, reissued with a new foreword for the twenty-first century. According to the authors, most people have it all wrong about how you become wealthy in America. Wealth is more often the result of hard work, diligent savings, and living below your means than it is about inheritance, advanced degrees, or even intelligence.

The Millionaire Next Door identifies seven common traits that frequently appear among those who have accumulated wealth. For example, millionaires often bargain shop for used cars, pay a small fraction of their wealth in income taxes, and raise children who are unaware of their family’s wealth until adulthood. Above all, they reject the big-spending lifestyles most people associate with being rich. The flashy millionaires glamorized in the media represent only a small minority of America’s wealthy. In reality, most of the truly wealthy don’t live in Beverly Hills or on Park Avenue—they live next door.

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7 Key Lessons from The Millionaire Next Door:

  • Live Below Your Means: True wealth is achieved by controlling expenses, regardless of income level. Millionaires often live frugally and avoid lifestyle inflation.

  • Spend Your Time, Energy, and Money Wisely: Wealthy individuals focus on activities that maximize their financial potential, like budgeting, investing, and learning about finances.

  • Avoid Status Symbols: Most millionaires prioritize financial independence over outward appearances. They don’t spend excessively on luxury items or high-status goods.

  • Be Self-Employed or Entrepreneurial: Many millionaires are business owners or self-employed, which allows them to control their financial destiny and build wealth over time.

  • Teach Your Children Financial Discipline: Wealthy families emphasize financial responsibility and don’t spoil their children with excessive spending or unearned money.

  • Be Proficient in Targeted Investing: Building wealth requires a disciplined and educated approach to investing. Millionaires often focus on long-term gains and avoid risky speculation.

  • Wealth Is More About Discipline Than Income: A high income doesn’t automatically lead to wealth. Building and retaining wealth depends more on saving and disciplined spending habits.

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